Would You Date You?

Would You Date You?

Think about it. Would you? This is a very important point. Unless you become the type of person you’re looking for, you wont attract the type of person you seek. Have you ever known men or women who aren’t necessarily the most handsome or pretty individuals but they never lack dates? What makes them so attractive? You guessed it: self confidence, and it’s contagious. It also screams sex appeal. These people are glowing with a bright, friendly, fun attitude, and they have a genuine interest in others. They’re happy with who they are and appreciate what they have to offer. This positive energy attracts an abundance of people who want to meet them. Self confidence produces amazing results.

Here’s why:

It’s sexy!
It allows you to relax and have fun.
It means you take rejection lightly and not personally.
It makes it clear that you are not desperate.
It means you’re content with yourself, your looks and your life – which only makes you more attractive.

In order to gain self-confidence, you must first learn how to love yourself. It’s important that you recognize and appreciate what’s great about you- and accept what’s not so great. If you don’t love and accept who you are, how do you expect someone else to?

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Jacquie Brownridge

Jacquie Brownridge is a professional Matchmaker and Managing Director of It’s Just Lunch Canada with offices serving Toronto, Vancouver, Victoria and the Okanagan. A natural communicator and strong networker, it’s her job to get professionals from behind their computers and connecting with singles in their area over lunch, brunch or drinks after work. She works to minimize the stress and maximize the efficiency of the dating process. It’s Just Lunch is the world's largest non-internet dating service with over 100 locations and 19 years experience. Jacquie has appeared on Canada AM, Global News hour, Urban Rush and been featured in numerous newspapers and magazines including: Business in Vancouver, the Globe, and the Vancouver Sun. She and IJL Vancouver have been voted “Best Dating Service” by the Consumer Choice Awards for three years running and most recently the recipient of “Best of Vancouver” Award for Best Dating Service. An Alumna of the University of British Columbia (UBC) Jacquie has a background in Psychology and Business Development. Although known for her ability to bring people together, she has unparalleled business acumen. A lover of travel and the arts, Jacquie has a back ground in music including piano and dance. In her spare time she can often be found on the slopes of Whistler.